Hi newhomebuyer!
The two biggest differences between term life and whole life insurance are the needs and the price. First, you have to think about why you're buying either or in the first place. Term life is the better choice for new families that have a lot of debt. For example, a dual-income family in their mid-thirties with a 250k mortgage with 20 years left, 20k in other loans/cards/credit lines and a young child. Whole life, on the other hand, is great if you have extra cash to spare to give the ultimate gift (50-100k usually) to your spouse or children. It really boils down to what you can afford.
I always suggest people to get both. Get a large amount of term insurance to cover needs that will go away in 20 years (and a possible accidental death because most people do live past the age of 55) and get a smaller amount of whole life insurance to ensure your loved ones can pay for your funeral and other miscellaneous fees.
Mortgage life insurance on the other hand is the most inexpensive and fastest way to get coverage. The application process is very quick and rarely does it involve a nurse coming over to your house to examine your blood, urine and vitals. The only problem is that the face value/money for your loved ones goes straight to the bank, literally. This leaves nothing for your family to do what they need to do the next day after your death. Yes, the house is immediately paid off, then what?
To answer your last question, I think the easiest way to remove an ex-spouse is to get a lawyer first. Then see if your insurance company can change the beneficiary to another family member or your children only.
I hope that helps.
Feel free to email me directly (konfucius18@yahoo.ca) if you have any more questions.
Sincerely,
A non-commissioned insurance branch manager


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